In same-sex weddings, custom bobbleheads are a unique and personal way to honor the couple's union. That's why these bobbleheads are made to look as much like the couple as possible. They capture their style, looks, and even personalities in a small form. Here are some general steps you can take to order custom bobbleheads for a same-sex wedding:

1. Find a Reputable Vendor: You should look for companies that make customized bobbleheads. It is very important to choose a seller who has good reviews and a collection of their work, especially if they are good at making bobbleheads for pairs of the same sex.
2. Submit Photos and Details: To make sure the bobbleheads accurately show the couple, you must send clear pictures of them from different angles. You can also tell them exactly what they should wear, like what they should wear to match their wedding dress, how they should style their hair, and any special items or decorations that are important to both of them.
3. Review and Approve Mock-ups: Most of the time, the seller will make a clay or computer copy of the bobblehead for you to look over and approve. Here's your chance to suggest any changes or tweaks that you think would make the end result even better.
4. Production and Delivery: Once you approve the design, the seller will make the bobbleheads and send them to you. Make sure you ask about production and shipping plans so they get there well before the wedding.
5. Incorporate into Wedding Decor or as Gifts: Personalized bobbleheads could add a unique touch to the decorations at your wedding. You could put them on the cake table, as cake toppers, or at the door. You can also give them as meaningful gifts to the happy couple or to show your thanks for the wedding party.

Making one-of-a-kind bobbleheads for a same-sex wedding is a thoughtful thing to do that makes the event feel special. It's an original and fun way for the couple to show how much they love and care for each other.